Critical Praise

“From her own loving heart and from richly revealing interviews with parents and adult children, Jane Isay has fashioned a wonderfully wise and constructive intergenerational guide. Read it and learn!”

——Judith Viorst, author of I'm Too Young to Be Seventy and Other Delusions

“A gently told, achingly honest book about the search for love and acceptance that aging parents and their adult children bring to each other and the tragic misunderstandings that get in their way and break their hearts.”

——Judith S. Wallerstein, Ph.D., author of What About the Kids? Raising Children Before, During, and After Divorce

“Jane Isay's warm, intelligent, reassuring voice shines through her illuminating stories about the delicate, lifelong bond between parents and their grown children. Anyone who has ever been in a parent-child kafuffle about rules, traditions, money, control, or anything else will find wisdom and encouragement in this lovely book.”

——Carol Tavris, Ph.D., coauthor of Mistakes Were Made (but not by me)

"Jane Isay gives us a hope chest of hard-earned wisdom and aha moments, and a mirror in which we can safely examine ourselves and our families."

——Rachel Simmons, author of Odd Girl Out: The Hidden Culture of Aggression in Girls