1. As the novel opens, Andrew and Mead appear to share little in common but their sullen temperaments and a deep mutual distrust. What are the key turning points in the novel that help draw them closer together?

2. Loss is a central theme of the story as Mead, Andrew and Evelyn each struggle to confront their own private tragedies. How do their losses compare and which character displays the greatest courage in the face of loss?

3. The novel contains several scenes in which the voices of the dead are audible to the living. Why do you think the author included those voices? Are they intended as literal or imaginary voices?

4. On page 70, Hull writes of Mead that, "It wasn't happiness he sought...It was the brief absence of pain that he cherished." What is the significance of this?

5. What appears to be Mead's greatest burden: sorrow, guilt or fear?

6. Why is it so difficult for Mead to let go of Sophie? Is he afraid of discovering that he can go on without her? How does his attraction to Evelyn compare to his feelings for Sophie?

7. Until his grandson's arrival, Mead had managed to keep his darkest memories of the war at bay for years. Why does he suddenly find himself overwhelmed by a past he longs to forget?

8. Mead and Andrew are in many ways products of their strikingly different generations. Are there any unexpected similarities between the two characters? What are their greatest differences?

9. Why is Evelyn able to reach Andrew in ways that Mead cannot?

10. How does Andrew's attempt to murder the bully who has tormented him compare to Mead's killing of the unarmed German soldier?

11. In what ways does the war change Mead and what moral responsibility does he bear for killing the German?

12. What impact does Normandy have on Andrew and how does it change his sense of his grandfather? Does he really comprehend the enormity of Mead's experiences or is the past only palpable to those who have lived it?

13. On page 244, when Andrew accuses his grandfather of being just as scared as he is, Hull writes, "In the sharp silence Mead felt something give way inside like scaffolding collapsing to the ground." What does he mean by this?

14. Is Andrew finally able to let go of the guilt he feels surrounding the suicide of his friend Matt? If so, why?

15. How does the title relate to the story and in what ways might the distance from Normandy be measured?